You’ve put yourself out there and tried talking to new people.
You’ve smiled, listened, and were interested.
But you’re still not getting the response you want. You’re not quite feeling the connection.
I mean, maybe you do alright talking sometimes, but then someone else enters the conversation and immediately has everyone’s attention. It seems they effortlessly have charm and wit and confidence.
It can make you feel worthless.
You might think, “what’s the point?” Because it seems others are so much more effective than you socially. And that you’ll never compare.
Are you just doing something wrong?
But it’s likely not what you think.
There’s a simple fix though if you are, and anyone can do it.