Dean J – Creator of Conversation Skills Core
Hi there, I’m Dean the creator of Conversation Skills Core. My mission with this site is to help the shy, awkward, insecure and introverted become more outgoing and confident so they STOP missing out on their lives.
Because I know from experience, without solid people skills and self-confidence:
- You lose out on friendships because you don’t know what to say
- You fall behind professionally because peers bond without you
- You miss invites and great experiences because you’re not noticed
Life’s too short for that! I feel one of the worst fates is thinking on your dying day, “I wish I would have…” I don’t want that fate for anyone.
Having an adventure & having fun in Rome at the Trevi Fountain
So I’ll do my best here to share in a practical, down-to-earth way, my experience on how to be confident socially combined with my studies of interpersonal communication and social psychology.
In the end, Conversation Skills Core is about helping you to:
- Feel natural and relaxed in social situations
- Talk confidently to people as the real you
- Be liked for who you truly are
- Live a life you love and feel proud of
The truth is, becoming outgoing and likeable is about more than social tricks and learning “what to say.” It’s also about being authentic and building solid self-confidence. So if you’re the type who’s ready to stop faking confidence and actually make it, then dig in. With persistence you WILL achieve success; it’s inevitable.
How To Get Started
I’ve prepared a series of videos and articles containing some of my best training. Designed to give you the power to effortlessly charm strangers. Feel confident ALL the time. And connect fully to new friends.
Click “Get Started” below to grab the training.
The Charm And Connect Series
Jump start your social life with some of my best training.
Showing you how to quickly connect and build TRUE confidence that lasts.
INSIDE:
- VIDEO: The Conversation Flow Framework
- Case Study – How I Overcame My Shyness
- VIDEO: 3 Cheats To Do Better Talking With Groups
- The Hidden Psychological Glitch Causing Insecurity
- The Evidence Backed Path To Lasting Confidence
- Plus Much More…
You’ve really hit on a topic adults struggle with…
“I really like reading your suggestions. They are by far the most useful I’ve come across. You’ve really hit on a topic that adults struggle with and there is very little information out there for assistance.”
Michele K.
Different from the rest of the sites the internet provides…
“I read a bunch of your articles and they seemed very deep and practical, different from the rest of the sites that the internet provides.”
Ignacio S.
Realized where I’ve been going wrong in conversations…
“On your second video right now and absolutely brilliant and so helpful! The concept has really given me a realization of where i have been going wrong during conversations.”
Kirsty C.
About Dean J
For much of my life, I felt different than most people and couldn’t find a lot to relate to them on. Not only was I a science fiction fan who hated sports and preferred cats; I was also pretty awkward socially.
I felt as awkward as I looked
- I didn’t know what to say or how to seem interesting and felt if I weren’t careful, they’d learn what a loser I really was.
- I was so nervous, I’d botch conversations and my anxiety made the other person uncomfortable and want to leave.
- I’d often end conversations early because I began to feel they didn’t like talking with me.
- But the worst part was feeling invisible, like I didn’t matter and others were better somehow.
Finally, I became determined to improve my social skills no matter what it took:
Hanging on pool deck after cruise ship sail-away party
- I worked on cruise ships as a social host mingling with guests
- I joined an improv comedy troupe to think fast on my feet
- I minored Interpersonal Communication in college
- I studied research on social psychology and confidence
- Most importantly, I tested it all to see what did & didn’t work
I practiced and studied on and off for over 10 years making plenty of mistakes. But I finally have the social skills I craved and a higher sense of self-confidence.
This site is my way to share with you what I learned along the way so you’ll improve in a fraction of the time it took me.
I finally figured out the “how to talk to people” thing
I’m no PhD. I’m not a therapist. I’m just a normal guy who has helped others like you and me transform from shy, insecure and socially awkward to feeling self-assured and capable in most conversations.
So if you have any questions or suggestions of topics you’d like me to cover, please get in touch. I really look forward to sharing in your journey to social confidence.
And again, you can get started with my training series below…
The Charm And Connect Series
Jump start your social life with some of my best training.
Showing you how to quickly connect and build TRUE confidence that lasts.
INSIDE:
- VIDEO: The Conversation Flow Framework
- Case Study – How I Overcame My Shyness
- VIDEO: 3 Cheats To Do Better Talking With Groups
- The Hidden Psychological Glitch Causing Insecurity
- The Evidence Backed Path To Lasting Confidence
- Plus Much More…
“I’ve watched the first video and so far I think your a social genius.”
Joel L.
It is noticeable that you love what you teach…
“Your tips are useful and it is noticeable that you love what you teach and that you are not a guy that tries to trick people and get benefit from them, something which is really valuable.”
Fernando M.
“You have helped change my life Dean, I will write you one he’ll of a recommendation if you so desire.”
Brett Cole