If I had my dream id finally feel lik people respect me. And I wouldnt feel so inferior talking to some of the people I deal with at work. Id be relaxed around them. Great vid btw!
Thanks Anna! Yeah that feeling of respect was something I craved for the longest too. I always had that feeling others saw me as nice but not “friend material.”
Yes yes yes! This is just what I needed. Ca’t wait for the next videos! I would love to konw I could just strike up fun conversations with people anywhere. Like my life would be an adventure then lol. Been following your stuff for a while now dean you give gr8 advice
I talk more about that in the series actually. THAnks!
dean this video ws awesome! Thanks you so much!!
Right this makes sense. but I guess my question is what if cant get myself to talk to some people in the first place?
Kleinson thanks for the comment. I actually talk about that a bit at the end of the video. And we’ll be going into it more in the next video too!
Wow that part about working on too many tactics and stuff at once hit home for me. I try to put some of that stuff into play but I just get in front of someone and its like i have no idea what to do anymore. It all gets jumbled in my head. This video made a lot of sense especially the framework. Gonna try and focus on just that for a while haha.Thanks!
My ideal social life would involve me being comfortable in my own skin. If I could access that headspace where I feel at ease with my identity and can be free to follow my passions without worrying about what others think, then I know my life would be so much richer.
Wrong question for me – as a happy introvert I don’t want the most amazing social life ever. “Ideal” for me would be that when I am in a social situation out of my comfort zone, I don’t clam up/just listen in to others’ conversations And – as others have said – it’s about being confident enough to make/initiate a conversation in the first place – and then to keep it flowing. Some tips to try out on your video – thanks.
Dean thanks a lot very informative. I hope to find out how to speak to people who actually intimidate me. Either as a boss or someone who’s just higher up.
My ideal social life would not being in my head so much and just to be confident around people I feel inferior by. I also got to just not be nervous in conversations and thinking about what to say. And hope to just strike up a conversation.
This technique would be helpful on my daily life. Thank u for this Mr. Dean J.
My ideal social life would be so much more fun and spontaneous. I could talk to anyone and be carefree! I would like to not care what people think of me, and be confident in who I am. One statement that really stood out to me in your video was to say my first thoughts instead of overthinking and trying to say the right thing. That has been a huge problem for me. I look forward to practicing and becoming better. Thanks, Dean!
This video was more helpful for me than you think. There are certain people in my life that I can never find the courage to talk to. One thing particular that you said was to build that true lasting confidence. Thank you Dean.