It can be frustrating can’t it?
Inconsistent, un-reliable confidence and social skills…
It’s like, around some people, you feel confident and outgoing. You’re a hit.
But around others… you regress back to your shy, awkward ways.
It’s infuriating because the people you freeze up around are often the ones you “want something from” most:
- An attractive girl or guy you want to like you
- A popular group of people you want acceptance from
- Someone successful or intimidating you want to impress
- Strangers you want to meet, but you’re not sure they’ll approve of you
So, what actually works to have “always on” social confidence and skill? And what doesn’t?
Well, to overcome shyness and INCONSISTENT social confidence, there’s two strategy choices:
- Follow the “common wisdom” path of conversation starters, body language tricks, word for word scripts, “just be confident”, affirmations, hypnosis… all to “fake it till you make it.”
…OR…
- Do something that GOES DEEPER and focuses on “authentic charm” instead of being fake. That favors clarity instead of overwhelm. That produces reliable, NOT inconsistent results.
Going deeper actually isn’t hard to do.
But it’s NOT for everybody…
- It’s NOT about “weird tricks” that “instantly” make you a charming people magnet so “everyone loves you”…
- It won’t “10x” your friends “overnight”…
- It WILL require facing the fact you’re likely doing (and not doing) things that drive people away…
- The truth is it’ll take some time and effort on your part…
So that’s the bad news out of the way.
Now, if you are up for this path…
- …it’s the fastest way to build TRUE, lasting confidence (not the kind that’s ON sometimes, OFF others)…
- So you’re not nervous, quiet and awkward around the people you MOST want to impress…
- So you effortlessly have captivating things to say to start conversations and keep them going…
- So you connect quickly with people, no matter the circumstances, and turn those bonds into friendships, relationships, professional opportunities, and more…
That kind of POWER and freedom is totally possible for you.
No doubt about it.
I’ve been teaching my readers and customers how to do this since 2011.
In the following pages, I’ll show YOU how to get there.