Ever notice how people have these expectations how outgoing you should be?
The level of social intelligence you should have?
And if you don’t fit that mold…
…if you’re more QUIET or DIFFERENT than what they think is normal…
…they want nothing to do with you?
It’s like, no matter what you do, you always end up in the same place…
Lonely.
To overcome the SHYNESS CYCLE, there’s two strategy choices:
- Follow the “common wisdom” path of conversation starters, body language tricks, word for word what to say, “just be confident”, affirmations, hypnosis, you name it… all to “fake it till you make it.”
- Do something that GOES DEEPER and gets to the heart of the problem. Something REAL that focuses on “authentic charm” instead of being fake. Something that produces reliable, NOT inconsistent results.
Going deeper actually isn’t hard to do.
But it’s NOT for everybody…
See, I feel obligated to give you the “bad news” here first. Just so you’ll know what you’re getting into…
It’s NOT about “weird tricks” that “instantly” make you a charming people magnet so “everyone loves you”.
It won’t “10x” your friends “overnight.”
It WILL require facing the fact you’re likely doing (and not doing) things that drive people away…
…AND keep your “Cycle of Shyness” going strong year after year.
The truth is it’ll take some time and effort on your part.
Just like ANY result worth having in life.
Go figure.
So that’s the bad news out of the way.
Now, if you are up for this path…
…it’s the quickest way to build TRUE, lasting confidence (not just the “fake” kind where you stand taller sometimes).
So you stop coming across awkward and weird…
So you effortlessly come up with captivating things to say to start conversations and keep them going…
That kind of freedom is totally possible for you.
No doubt about it.
Let me show you how.