It’s frustrating isn’t it?
Being the “quiet one.”
Feeling SO uncertain what to say, how to act, who you are around MOST people.
To the point you don’t talk much anymore. Fearing they won’t accept you. (After all, you’ve been burned in the past for saying something awkward.)
What’s worse, your quiet, nervous nature causes others to see you as strange. So they treat you like you don’t matter.
It’s like, no matter what you do, you’re trapped in a cycle that always ends with the same result…
…YOU being alone and misunderstood.
So, what actually works to come across “normal,” likable and confident socially? And what doesn’t?
Well, to overcome the CYCLE of shyness and social anxiety, there’s two strategy choices:
- Follow the “common wisdom” path of conversation starters, body language tricks, word for word scripts, “just be confident”, affirmations, hypnosis… all to “fake it till you make it.”
…OR…
- Do something that GOES DEEPER and focuses on “authentic charm” instead of being fake. That favors deep connections where you can be yourself. That produces reliable, NOT inconsistent results.
Going deeper actually isn’t hard to do.
But it’s NOT for everybody…
- It’s NOT about “weird tricks” that “instantly” make you a charming people magnet so “everyone loves you”…
- It won’t “10x” your friends “overnight”…
- It WILL require facing the fact you’re likely doing (and not doing) things that drive people away…
- The truth is it’ll take some time and effort on your part…
So that’s the bad news out of the way.
Now, if you are up for this path…
- …it’s the fastest way to build TRUE, lasting confidence (not just the “fake” kind where you stand taller sometimes)…
- So you stop coming across awkward, quiet and weird and repelling people…
- So you effortlessly have captivating things to say to start conversations and keep them going…
- So you connect quickly with people and make true friends who cherish spending time with you…
That kind of FREEDOM and power is totally possible for you.
No doubt about it.
I’ve been teaching my readers and customers how to do this since 2011.
In the following pages, I’ll show YOU how to get there.